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The Tennessee family police agency has a plan for what to do with foster children who get out of line. |
Decades ago, the father of family defense and family
advocacy (and also the President of NCCPR), Prof. Martin Guggenheim, cut to the
heart of the failure of family policing when he said: “There’s a lot of hate
disguised as love in this system.”
I thought of that when I watched two top “child welfare”
officials in Tennessee forget their disguises. I’m not even talking about
contempt for parents; they forgot to disguise what they really think of the
children – once they get older and are no longer cute little “kiddos.”
It happened at a legislative hearing in Tennessee concerning
a bill supported by the state family police agency, the Department of Children’s
Services. The bill would essentially allow DCS to throw foster youth into jail whenever
the agency felt they’d gotten out of line.
Oh, wait. I’m sure DCS would want you to know these are not
“jails” – rather, they are what news accounts call “jail-like facilities” - detention
centers where, under current law, you are not allowed to place a child unless
that child is convicted of a crime. But that’s certainly not a jail!
Tennessee already allows foster youth who committed no crime
to be handcuffed. As WTVF-TV
in Nashville reports, the cuffs were used on a 12-year-old believed to be
autistic, who refused to go to bed.
But that’s not enough for DCS Legislative Director Jim
Layman and DCS Commissioner Margie Quin, who testified in favor of the
throw-foster-kids-in-jail bill.
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The leader of the Tennessee "child welfare" agency is demanding accountability -- from the children. (Still frame from WTVF) |
The story was first reported by
WPLN
Public Radio, then WTVF. They cover much the same ground, but the video
story has one advantage: Even in short soundbites, you can see and practically
feel what those DCS officials really think of the children they are supposed to
protect. Watch as Quin says foster youth
need to be effectively jailed to be held accountable for “violent” behavior because
"that lack of accountability gives rise to additional violent behavior."
It’s even more striking when the comments of those who would
be the victimizers if this bill becomes law are compared to the love and
understanding shown by one of those who could have been a victim, former foster
youth Ella Bet-Ami. You can see it all here.
Of course, when foster youth commit violent acts, they
already can be criminally charged and placed in “jail-like facilities.” So who
does Quin really have in mind?
Ella Bet-Ami knows what the rhetoric about violent behavior
is really all about. Here’s an excerpt from WPLN’s story:
“We don’t get to make mistakes,” Bet-Ami said. “We don’t
get to have temper tantrums. We don’t get to have bad days. We’re not allowed
to be children.” … She said that kids like her are living on a knife’s edge —
getting into trouble could cost them their home, their foster family, and under
a new proposal, their freedom.
“Foster children are entitled to a childhood in the same
way other children are entitled to a childhood,” she said. “It should not be a
childhood with the sword of prison dangling over their heads.”
Don’t believe the usual excuses
What you heard and saw in these stories is young people like
Ms. Bet-Ami described as so incredibly difficult that somehow they’d have to be
jailed – and, says Quin, held accountable. Remember that when you hear
officials all over the country say that it’s the rest of us who don’t
understand when they tell us that the children supposedly are just sooooo much
more difficult now, with oh sooooo complex behavioral needs that they simply
can’t be placed in a home setting.
It’s not true of young people like Ms. Bet-Ami. But it’s
also not true when it comes to children who really do have serious behavioral
problems. Because the
research is overwhelming that institutionalization of any kind, let alone a
jail, doesn’t work and often does enormous harm. That’s true even when
institutions aren’t rife with abuse. But often, of course, abuse is rampant, as
with institutions in, among other places, Arizona, Kentucky, Indiana, Utah, Iowa, Oklahoma, Rhode Island, Washington State, Arkansas, New York, Connecticut, Ohio, Idaho – and Tennessee.
In contrast, what has been proven to work is bringing
Wraparound programs right into a family home or, when a child really must be
removed, into a foster home. You won’t
find many young people more “difficult” than the one the late Karl Dennis, the
father of Wraparound, talks about in this video:
And no, the
problem isn’t a “shortage” of foster homes either. Tennessee tears apart
families at a rate more than 80% above the national average, even when rates of child poverty are
factored in. It's an ugly track record that goes back decades. Stop taking away children when parents are guilty of nothing more
than, say, driving while Black, as happened in a notorious Tennessee case, spend the money
you’re spending on institutionalizing kids on Wraparound services instead, and
there will be plenty of good, safe family placements for the children who need
them.
But of course
that would require an agency led by people with guts, vision and imagination –
or at least an agency led by people who are a bit less hostile toward the kids
they’re supposed to be protecting.
Two
footnotes
1. Tennessee is
among the first states to sign on to a new federal child welfare initiative.
But I wonder if Gov. Bill Lee and Commissioner Margie Quin need to reread the
document. The initiative is called a
home for every child, not a cell for every child.
2. On the
matter of accountability. Commissioner Quin:
● You run a
system that tears apart families at a rate more than 80% above the national
average.
● You run a
system that allows an autistic 12-year-old to be handcuffed for refusing to go
to bed.
● You run a
system willing to tear apart a family for driving while Black.
● You oversee facilities rife with abuse.
So by all means, Commissioner Quin. Tell us again why it’s
the children who need to be held accountable.